I’ve had experiences going into local cafés dressed exactly how I love to dress: elegant, feminine, polished, and put together. And I noticed the looks. The staring. The faces. The intense glances from women who seemed almost uncomfortable with the way I presented myself. At first, I wondered, “Why are they looking at me like that?” Then I realized something: Sometimes you can be in a room that simply isn’t aligned with you. And that doesn’t mean you need to shrink yourself t