For many Black women, masculinity isn’t something we consciously chose—it’s something we adapted . It’s the posture we learned when softness didn’t feel safe. When being vulnerable felt risky. When we realized early on that if we didn’t handle it, nobody else would. Masculine survival mode is not about wanting to be “hard” or “dominant.” It’s about protection. Control. Self-preservation. And while it may have served you in past seasons, it can quietly block your ability to re

For a long time, we’ve been sold a very narrow picture of femininity. Soft curls. Neutral nails. Flowing dresses. Pink palettes. And while there’s nothing wrong with beauty, style, or presentation—I love a well-put-together woman—femininity does not  begin or end with how you look. Especially for Black and Brown women, femininity is deeper. Richer. More layered. More intentional. Femininity beyond aesthetics is about who you are when nobody is watching , not just who you appe

Stop focusing on how to rebrand your life this year, just remember why you started. Tracee Ellis Ross got us all the way together with this idea that we need to focus on remembering who we are not simply on leveling up. This blog post will help you to put your energy on the right things this year!put your energy into