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Dear Black Woman: Give Yourself What You Need
This morning, I woke up sore. Not the kind of soreness that makes you want to complain, but the kind that reminds you your body has been working hard. Every muscle ached from yesterday’s workout. My first instinct was to push through it. After all, there was work to do, content to create, emails to answer, and responsibilities waiting for me. But then I stopped. Instead of asking myself, “What do I have to get done?” I asked a different question: “What do I need right now?” T

Just An Uppity Black Woman
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Dear Uppity Black Woman: The World Was Never Going to Like You
There comes a moment in every Black woman’s life when she has to make a choice. Will I shrink myself to make other people comfortable? Or will I become the woman I was always meant to be? If you’ve ever been called uppity, bougie, stuck-up, too good, high maintenance, or told that you’ve “changed,” this letter is for you. Dear Uppity Black Woman, The world was never going to like you. Not because you’re cruel. Not because you think you’re better than anyone. Not because you’r

Coach Ahava- Etiquette Expert
Jul 243 min read


The Power Of The Pivot On Your Femininity Journey
Sis, growth isn’t always a straight line, and that’s where the pivot comes in. This post dives into why pivoting is important as a women.

Coach Ahava- Etiquette Expert
Jan 28, 20257 min read


7 Standards Every Woman Should Have
Are you ready to enter 2025 with confidence as a feminine woman? Then I have exactly what you will need! Check out our new blog on standards

Coach Ahava- Etiquette Expert
Dec 26, 202416 min read


High Standards & Why They're So Important For Black Women
In a world that often fails to recognize the unique challenges faced by Black women, setting and maintaining high standards is not just...

Coach Ahava- Etiquette Expert
Sep 14, 20232 min read


4 Ways to Reclaim A Softer Life
In a world that often demands strength and resilience from Black women, it is crucial to remember the importance of self-care and...

Coach Ahava- Etiquette Expert
Jul 9, 20232 min read


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